Breathing Exercises


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Breathing Exercises for Stress Relief

Breathing is something we all do without thinking, but when used with intention, it can be one of the most powerful ways to calm the mind and body. Controlled breathing exercises sends a signal to your nervous system to slow down, which reduces tension, steadies your heart rate, and helps you feel more in control.

Here are some simple exercises you can try anytime you feel stressed or overwhelmed.

1. The 4–4 Breathing Method

This is a simple exercise that’s easy to remember and works well in most situations.

How to do it:

  1. Sit or stand comfortably and relax your shoulders.
  2. Inhale gently through your nose for a count of 4.
  3. Hold your breath for a count of 4.
  4. Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 4.
  5. Pause for a brief moment before repeating.

Try this for 5 rounds to quickly settle your breathing and calm racing thoughts.

2. Extended Exhale Breathing

Lengthening your exhale helps switch your body into “rest and recover” mode, easing anxiety and tension.

How to do it:

  1. Take a gentle breath in through your nose for a count of 4.
  2. Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 6.
  3. Focus on making your exhale smooth and steady.
  4. Repeat for 1–2 minutes.

This technique works well before bed or during a stressful day.

3. Box Breathing (Square Breathing)

Often used by athletes and the military, this method is grounding and helps bring focus as well as calm.

How to do it:

  1. Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds.
  2. Hold your breath for 4 seconds.
  3. Exhale through your mouth for 4 seconds.
  4. Hold your breath again for 4 seconds.
  5. Repeat the cycle 4–6 times.

Imagine tracing the sides of a square in your mind as you breathe to stay focused.

4. Hand-on-Heart Breathing

This technique combines breath with touch, creating a sense of comfort and grounding.

How to do it:

  1. Place one hand on your chest, just over your heart.
  2. Breathe in slowly through your nose for 5 seconds, feeling your chest rise under your hand.
  3. Exhale gently through your mouth for 5–6 seconds.
  4. As you breathe, silently repeat a calming phrase such as “I am safe” or “I can relax.”
  5. Continue for 5–10 breaths.

This method is especially helpful if you’re feeling emotionally overwhelmed.

5. Counting Back Breathing

A good way to interrupt spiralling thoughts and bring focus back to the moment.

How to do it:

  1. Inhale slowly through your nose and exhale through your mouth.
  2. After each exhale, count down from 10.
  3. With each breath, lower the number (10… 9… 8…).
  4. Continue until you reach 1.

This method calms the body while distracting the mind from racing thoughts.

Tips for Getting the Most Out of Breathing Exercises

Practise daily, even when you’re not feeling stressed, so the techniques become second nature.

Find a quiet, comfortable space when possible, but remember these can also be done at your desk, on the bus, or even in a queue.

If your mind wanders, gently bring your attention back to your breath without judgement.

With regular practice, these simple techniques can become part of your personal Stress Toolkit, helping you feel calmer, clearer, and more resilient in everyday life.

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