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Grounding Techniques for Stress and Anxiety

Grounding techniques are simple tools that help bring your attention back to the present moment when stress, anxiety, or overwhelming thoughts take over. They work by engaging your senses or body to “anchor” you in the here and now, rather than being caught up in worries or racing thoughts.

Here are some of the most effective and widely practised grounding exercises:

1. The 5-4-3-2-1 Method

A classic grounding tool using your five senses.

5 things you can see
4 things you can touch
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste

👉 This exercise gently shifts focus from your mind to your environment.

2. The “Here and Now” Statement

Say to yourself:

“My name is [name].”
“I am [age] years old.”
“Today is [day and date].”
“I am sitting in [place].”

👉 Stating simple facts helps orient your mind back to reality.

3. Temperature Reset

Hold something cold, like an ice cube or a chilled drink.
Or, run your hands under warm or cool water.

👉 Changing your body’s temperature helps break cycles of racing thoughts and brings awareness back to the physical moment.

5. Object Focus

Choose any object nearby – a pen, a mug, your phone.
Study it in detail: its shape, texture, weight, colour, and even imperfections.

👉 Concentrating on a single item helps calm wandering thoughts.

4. The Name Game

Pick a category, such as animals, countries, or foods.
List as many as you can, either silently or out loud.

👉 This engages the thinking part of your brain and distracts from anxious spirals.

6. Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)

Starting with your toes, gently tense the muscles for 5 seconds, then release.
Move upwards through your body (legs, stomach, arms, shoulders, face).

👉 Tensing and releasing helps release built-up physical stress and reconnects you with your body.

7. Grounding Through Counting

Count backwards slowly from 20 to 1.
Or, count how many objects of a certain colour you can see around you.

👉 This occupies the mind while keeping you focused on your surroundings.

8. Self-Touch and Pressure

Place a hand over your heart or on your stomach and breathe deeply.
Or, gently press your palms together or give yourself a firm hug.

👉 Physical pressure creates a sense of safety and calm.

9. Movement Grounding

Take a short walk and notice every step you take.
As you walk, say “left, right” in your head.

👉 Movement reconnects the body and mind, especially when stress makes you feel detached.

10. Feet on the Floor

Sit comfortably and place both feet flat on the ground.
Notice the weight of your body pressing into the chair.
Pay attention to how the floor feels beneath your feet – solid, supportive, steady.

👉 A quick and discreet way to feel grounded anywhere.

Tips for Using Grounding Exercises

Practise when you feel calm, so they become easier to use in stressful moments.
Try different methods – sensory, physical, and mental – to see which works best for you.
Remember, grounding doesn’t solve the source of stress, but it helps you pause, regain control, and think more clearly.

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